About projections.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s been one week of breastfeeding support. It\u2019s the craziest thing I\u2019ve seen in a really long time. Mean and aggressive comments go towards moms who breastfeed their babies. Also from women, including moms. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
It seems to be one of those topics you can\u2019t just pass by quietly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s gotten to the point where two-year-olds (boys) were accused of looking around adult women in a \u2018wrong way\u2019. And in watching TV-programs that demonstrate women\u2019s underwear with curiosity. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019m wondering: who turned on Victoria\u2019s Secret show instead of cartoons for a two-year-old?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The projection mechanism is such a powerful thing! You look at a baby but see a sexual maniac.\ud83d\ude31<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n<\/p>\nWhat\u2019s that \u2013 guilt? Shame? Fear? Why does and adult woman see a threat in madonna with
a baby?
<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\nIn fact, the baby itself as well as its feeding has nothing to do with all that. And no matter how much you yell and swear at moms that breastfeed their babies it\u2019s not going to help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But what will help then? Sort out your own feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It was that I nursed my first two kids until they were one year old. Fedya is still on the breastfeeding. So now I get my regular dosage of \u2018How come that you are still breastfeeding? Are you insane?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And the kicker is \u2013 \u2018But he already understands everything!\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yes! And he got it ever since he was born. This might not be so obvious but even newborns do realise everything. They just can\u2019t say anything like an adult would do. That\u2019s why they seem silly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Breastfeeding is not just about food. It is a very special connection that mom has with her child. The energy between them. Loyalty. Love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I don\u2019t see breastfeeding as non-freedom. I don\u2019t even need that glass of wine or a bottle of bear which I\u2019m supposedly deprived of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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